How to have Extraordinary Relationships

S1 E7 - Louisa Young

Lucy

Louisa Young is a writer and songwriter whose twelve novels include the award-winning ‘My Dear I Wanted to Tell You’ trilogy. She’s half of the children’s author Zizou Corder (with her daughter Isabel Adomakoh Young), and half of the band Birds of Britain (with Alex Mackenzie). She’s a Londoner, a former journalist, a singer, a feminist, a reader, and ‘a masterly storyteller’ –  The Washington Post.

Her latest novel, Twelve Months And A Day, is published by Borough Press in June 2022. ‘A tale of two love stories with a supernatural twist, Twelve Months and a Day is poignant and sad as well as funny, and beautifully written and imagined. What if our beloveds lived on as ghosts and watched us grieve, what if they never really leave us, and what if some of these ghosts even meet?’ — Monique Roffey

 Her ‘beautiful’, ‘heartbreaking’. spectacular’, ‘unflinching’, ‘bruising’, ‘brilliant’, ‘honest as the morning after’ memoir, You Left Early: A True Story of Love and Alcohol, is out in paperback. She released her debut album, You Left Early, also about love, death and addiction, in 2018.

Louisa has taught at Arvon, Skyros, Moniack Mhor, at Guardian Masterclasses, and for Birkbeck (University of London). She has been a Visiting Specialist Lecturer in Creative Non Fiction at the University of Kent at Canterbury. 



Key points of the episode:

  • How she was depressed in her early years, and how she finally beat it and how life got better.
  • How her (and many other) work worlds have changed so much over the years.
  • Young children and their critique of her work!
  • A close call with the IRA.
  • Her thoughts on the riots (August 2024)
  • What she will and wont write about and why.
  • "All about the approach, not about the topic"
  • The difference betwen "fault" and "responsibility" and the need for tough love sometimes.
  • Her new "romcom" book.
  • ... and a secret new project!

Reach out on www.louisayoung.co.uk

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